WE did not get a say to the circumstance in which we were born in. This I figured, is the reason why we may actually have an individual purpose through this lifetime. Else, if we were the creators of our own lives, then we would have been given the choice of creation.
Notice how if you may want something that is unachievable by hard work, you probably would not get it. However, if it is something you never put much thought in, then probably, it becomes you. Saying this, further shows how our desires seldom come in consideration in the ultimate purpose of existence.
What is?
Perhaps, being at peace and accepting ourselves as we are. Change for the better, live for the better, do it all for the betterment not just selfishly, but selflessly, the general betterment. Perhaps then, we would be allowed the chance to knowing the biggest picture.
IF. Not a nice word at all.